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New Family Mediation Guidance for Courts: Key Takeaways
1. Strengthened MIAM Requirements April 2024 Update: The Family Procedure Rules were strengthened to enhance the MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) requirements. Purpose: Ensure that all parties are informed about mediation and other non-court dispute resolution (NCDR) options before proceeding with court cases. 2. Role of the Family Mediation Council (FMC) Regulation and Governance: The FMC oversees the standards and practices of family mediators. Authorised

Sushma Kotecha
Oct 14, 20242 min read


Navigating Divorce With Neurodivergence: Key Tips for a Smoother Transition
Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged experience, and when neurodivergence is part of the equation, it requires additional considerations to ensure a fair, supportive process. Whether one or both parties are neurodivergent or a child in the family has neurodivergence, understanding how these differences affect communication, emotional regulation, and decision-making is essential for a smoother separation. Here are some key tips to help navigate divorce in this context.

Sushma Kotecha
Sep 16, 20243 min read


Exploring Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) Options for Family Law Issues
When families go through separation or divorce, disputes can arise over child arrangements, finances, and property. While the court is an option to resolve these issues, it isn't always the best or necessary route. Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) offers alternative ways to reach agreements without the stress, expense, and time commitment of court proceedings. Why Choose NCDR? Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) refers to any process used to resolve disputes without going

Sushma Kotecha
Aug 10, 20243 min read


Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges: A Real-Life Mediation Success Story
Going through a divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. As an accredited family mediator and holistic life coach, I've had the privilege of helping many families navigate this challenging transition. Today, I want to share a real-life example of how mediation can transform conflict into cooperation, prioritising the well-being of children and fostering effective co-parenting. The Sharma Family: A Case Study Meet the Sharmas, a couple in their late thir

Sushma Kotecha
Jul 15, 20243 min read


Navigating Separation and Divorce: Understanding Your Brain and Regulating Emotions
Divorce or separation can be one of the most stressful events in a person's life. During this time, it's crucial to understand how your brain and body react to stress and what you can do to manage your emotions, thoughts, and actions. By doing so, you can make more rational decisions that benefit you and your family. Here's a simple guide to help you through this challenging time. Understanding Your Brain and Hormones in Survival Mode When you're going through a stressful eve

Sushma Kotecha
Jun 14, 20243 min read


Understanding the Emotions of a Man Going Through Divorce
If you are a man going through a divorce, and feel stuck in a loop, trapped, guilty or confused, then this is for you. What you are about to read is something I’ve seen often, over the years. Understanding the emotions of a man going through divorce, has been an important part of my own journey. It's also something that isn't talked about and acknowledged enough. So, I felt like it’s something that definitely needs writing about. Divorce is an emotionally complex experien

Sushma Kotecha
May 17, 20244 min read
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