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Divorce Coach

Here's an overview of how Coaching works

What is a Holistic Divorce Coach

A holistic divorce coach can help you navigate the complexities of divorce while managing your emotions, stress, anxiety, and depression. 

Divorce coach Sushma Kotecha will educate and guide you through the legal principles and process of divorce while also encouraging a self-care and stress-management regime. While she will not provide legal advice, Sushma has over 30 years of combined experience in family law as a divorce lawyer, accredited family mediator, and divorce coach, as well as being a divorcee herself.

Through divorce coaching sessions, Sushma helps clients address some of the most common challenges and fears associated with separation and/or divorce, such as not understanding the legal process, feeling uncertain about the future, and struggling with communication and conflict with your ex-partner. She can also give professional  guidance on how to sort out financial and housing arrangements and manage the adverse emotional impact of the divorce on your children.

Sushma's approach to divorce coaching emphasises healing and recovery. She helps you become more self-aware of automatic reactions that may not serve you well during this difficult time. By breaking the divorce journey down into smaller, manageable objectives and stages, Sushma helps you maintain a greater degree of control.

Are you ready for a divorce coach?
To determine whether you are ready to be coached, Sushma asks three key questions, on a scale of 1 to 10:
How important is it to you to make a change?

How ready and willing are you to make the changes required? 

How confident are you about making changes with the right support?

What is Holistic Coaching

The Coaching Process


Schedule a free 15-minute discovery call with Sushma to discuss any questions you may have about our holistic divorce coaching service.


If you decide to work with Sushma as your divorce coach, complete the online coaching referral form and pay for your session(s) at a cost of £125 for 60 minutes (first session introductory offer of 90 minutes) or £625 for a discounted package of 6 sessions (pay for 5 and get one session free) on our services page. Sushma will then contact you to schedule your Zoom coaching session(s) at a mutually convenient time. 


You will receive a pre-session questionnaire to fill out and return before your first session. You will also be asked to sign a coaching agreement contract outlining the scope and terms of coaching.


Coaching sessions will be tailored to your specific goals and objectives and will be guided by your current needs and concerns.


Sushma will help you develop a personalised divorce plan that includes self-care and stress management strategies to restore balance to your mind and body. This will enable you to make informed and conscious decisions throughout your separation and/or divorce journey, ultimately serving you and your family's best interests.

Coaching Process
How We Can Help

Sushma has unusual, perhaps unique experience in that as well as being a coach, she has practiced family law for many years, taking a holistic, non-adversarial approach and she also acts as a family mediator, so she can offer coaching from many perspectives.

I found Sushma’s approach really helpful – she was open to steering the conversation wherever I needed it to go, supportive and affirming, but also challenging when necessary. She offered helpful, pragmatic guidance on next steps and – being a naturally warm and concerned person – did so in a kind and attentive manner.

Joe Bakowski

How We Can Help

As an experienced divorce lawyer, accredited family mediator and a graduate of the Holistic Life Coaching & Mind-Body Practitioner diploma, Sushma is uniquely positioned to offer compassionate and transformative divorce life coaching services. She works closely with her clients to help them navigate the challenging waters of separation and divorce with grace and resilience.

Sushma's approach to divorce coaching is grounded in the belief that ending a marriage or relationship can be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It really marks an opportunity to evolve and improve your ability to handle conflict and other future curve balls that life throws at you.


Sushma understands that every client's situation is unique, which is why she offers bespoke coaching services tailored to meet each client's needs.

Through her coaching sessions, Sushma helps her clients to:

Carry out goal setting and life planning exercises. 

We believe that divorce can be an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. Our UK divorce coach will assist you in setting post-divorce goals, creating action plans, and supporting your journey toward a brighter future.

Navigate the emotional challenges of separation and divorce.  

Divorce often stirs a whirlwind of emotions. Sushma is here to provide a safe, empathetic space for you to express your feelings, share your concerns, and begin the healing process. Our divorce coach will help you manage the emotional challenges and emerge stronger.

Develop effective communication and negotiation skills to facilitate constructive dialogue with their ex-partner. 

Communication with your ex-partner can be challenging during divorce. Sushma offers strategies and guidance to improve your communication skills, fostering more productive discussions and co-parenting arrangements.

Plan when to tell the children what they need to know and without blame. 

During separation and or divorce, one of the most critical aspects is how and when to communicate with your children. We understand the significance of shielding children from unnecessary details while providing them with age-appropriate information. Our divorce coach will guide you on the delicate art of ensuring children are informed, supported, and shielded from adult complexities during this sensitive time.

Address any personal obstacles or limiting beliefs that may be hindering their progress. 

As you journey through divorce or separation, it's common to encounter personal obstacles and limiting beliefs that can hinder your progress. Sushma specialises in helping you identify and address these emotional and psychological barriers. She will provide tailored guidance to navigate the challenges, empowering you to move forward with confidence and clarity.

Create a clear and compelling vision for their future.

Our approach to divorce coaching in the UK is rooted in empowering you to rebuild your life with newfound strength and resilience. Sushma has a track record of helping clients emerge from divorce not as victims but as survivors who have gained valuable life skills.

Build a support network of friends, family, and professionals to help them achieve their goals.

Building a support network during divorce or separation in the UK is a vital step in achieving your goals and emotional well-being. Our divorce coach emphasises the importance of connecting with friends, family, and trusted professionals who can provide guidance and encouragement. Together, you'll have the strength and resources to navigate the complexities of divorce with resilience and optimism. 

Resolve conflicts through mediation.

Conflict is a common element of divorce, but it doesn't have to be destructive. Our divorce coach specialises in conflict resolution and mediation, working to achieve amicable agreements that reduce stress, minimise litigation, and prioritise your family's well-being.

Whether you are contemplating divorce, in the midst of the process, or looking to rebuild your life after separation, Sushma's divorce coaching services can help you to emerge from this challenging time with greater clarity, confidence, and resilience.

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