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For many couples who choose a calm, collaborative, and holistic approach to separation, the journey often begins long before any professional is involved. Some reach their own agreements around the kitchen table. Others work things out through mediation. Some use coaching or structured conversations to help them communicate more clearly. Whatever the starting point, more and more couples now ask the same question: “We’ve reached our agreement - can we use one lawyer to finali

Separation and divorce are among the most challenging transitions a family can experience. When emotions run high and the future feels uncertain, the process chosen to navigate these changes can significantly influence the outcome for everyone involved. Increasingly, families are turning to mediation as a constructive, future‑focused alternative to adversarial routes. With Family Mediation Week taking place from 26–30 January , this is an ideal moment to highlight the value o

Introduction As more families across England & Wales seek alternatives to court, family mediation continues to evolve as a trusted, structured, and compassionate way to resolve disputes. The Family Mediation Council’s latest publication, The State of Family Mediation 2025 , offers valuable insights into how mediation is changing and what that means for separating couples and co-parents today. Mediation Is Growing But Still Misunderstood The report confirms that family mediati

Introduction The start of a new school year brings excitement and change. For separated or divorced parents, it can also present unique challenges. From co-ordinating logistics to supporting your child’s emotional wellbeing, this season calls for thoughtful planning and collaboration. With a child-focused approach, co-parents can turn this transition into a time of growth and stability.   1. Plan Ahead for a Smooth Start Co-ordinate Schedules and Responsibilities Use shared c

Understanding MIAM and Its Importance One Year on From Rule Changes. If you’re separating or divorcing in England & Wales, attending a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) is now more crucial than ever. The April 2024 updates to the Family Procedure Rules  reinforce a MIAM as the first step  in resolving disputes helping families find solutions without costly and stressful court battles . What is a MIAM? A MIAM  is an initial separate information and assessment

Bridging the Gap In an increasingly interconnected world, multicultural families have become a vibrant and enriching part of our society. However, when these families face challenges like separation or divorce, navigating cultural differences can add an extra layer of complexity to an already emotional process. Mediation serves as a powerful tool to bridge cultural gaps and find common ground, fostering understanding and respectful resolutions. The Role of Culture in Family D

I am thrilled to share the fantastic news that the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme (£500 towards the costs of substantive joint mediation per family where there are child arrangement issues to sort out) has been extended for another year, now running until March 2026. This significant development was confirmed by Lord Ponsonby, the Minister responsible for family justice, during a pre-Family Mediation Week reception hosted by Family Law in Partnership and arranged by the Fami

The festive season is a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness. However, for families navigating the complexities of co-parenting, it can also bring unique challenges. Balancing family expectations, managing gatherings, and ensuring that children have a positive experience requires thoughtful planning and communication. Here are some key takeaways and tips to help you navigate this festive season smoothly, including strategies for managing conflicts. 1. Prioritise the Chi

1. Strengthened MIAM Requirements April 2024 Update : The Family Procedure Rules were strengthened to enhance the MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting)  requirements. Purpose : Ensure that all parties are informed about mediation and other non-court dispute resolution (NCDR)  options before proceeding with court cases. 2. Role of the Family Mediation Council (FMC) Regulation and Governance : The FMC oversees the standards and practices of family mediators. Autho

When families go through separation or divorce, disputes can arise over child arrangements, finances, and property. While the court is an option to resolve these issues, it isn't always the best or necessary route. Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) offers alternative ways to reach agreements without the stress, expense, and time commitment of court proceedings. Why Choose NCDR? Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) refers to any process used to resolve disputes without going

Going through a divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. As an accredited family mediator and holistic life coach, I've had the privilege of helping many families navigate this challenging transition. Today, I want to share a real-life example of how mediation can transform conflict into cooperation, prioritising the well-being of children and fostering effective co-parenting.   The Sharma Family: A Case Study Meet the Sharmas, a couple in their late thir

If you're considering family mediation to resolve conflicts; you've likely come across the term "MIAM". But what exactly is a MIAM, and what does it entail? Let's dive into the details. What is a MIAM?   A MIAM, or Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting, marks the first step in the family mediation process. Lasting approximately an hour, this meeting offers you the opportunity to share details about your situation with a trained mediator. Whether you're navigating divorce

The landscape of family law is undergoing significant transformation with the introduction of the Family Procedure (Amendment No 2) Rules 2023 in the UK. These changes herald a pivotal shift towards non-court dispute resolution (NCDR), aiming to resolve family disputes more efficiently and amicably. This blog post delves into key amendments, underscoring their potential impact on the dynamics of family law proceedings. Emphasis on Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR): Central

The UK government's recent family law reforms  aim to prioritise children's wellbeing during parental separation. Plans to enforce compulsory family mediation have been halted due to concerns about safeguarding domestic abuse victims. Instead, a legal advice pilot will expedite child arrangements, addressing barriers to early resolution. The family mediation voucher scheme  has aided over 24,600 families, emphasising the government's commitment to resolving issues without co

Proposed family mediation reforms and extension of the government voucher scheme

Back to Basics: What is Family Mediation?

New MIAMs Standards, Guidance and Assurances

A Holistic approach allows for a kinder, compassionate and dignified divorce and separation.

Holistic Family Mediation Welcomes Additional Funding for Voucher Scheme

Government family mediation voucher scheme extended